It is actually fairly common for a guys to be quite shy around girls that they are trying to chat up and although this can be quite a debilitating problem for a lot of guys ot is also something that one can get round fairly easy with the right planning and application.
It really is something that you can train yourself to do in a lot instances when you are out with friends and groups etc. One of the first things that you can do is to really make more of an effort when in a group to be more outgoing and to talk more. It is an ideal time to practice among those that you know as you will generally feel more comfortable and less bothered if you were to make a mistake for example.
The next thing to do is to get out and socialize. This is a great way to start meeting new people and there are plenty of options here such as going to the gym or perhaps even going down to the local bar for example. It in fact doesn’t really matter where you go, but as long as your socializing and out meeting people it will all help towards reaching the endgame of being more confident around women.
You could always do some practice with a friend and this will all stand you in good stead before the real thing. You will probably feel more comfortable with a friend and therefore less inclined to worry about you come across and so is like a dress rehearsal for the real thing.
When you are in a position where you do feel more confident then you can really take things to the next level. This would be a good time to ask a girl out somewhere for a date. When it comes to chooseing where to go for this you will probably want ot think about where the girl would want to go and this is where you will need to be a bit creative. Going out for a coffee, or perhaps to the pub or perhaps take here down for a bit of pampering at your local Nuru massage salon where she could also get some beauty treatment done. All girls do lobe to be pampered and so this would probably make the ideal choice for your first date!